"Unless
we can imagine something we cannot undertake to achieve
it." Welcome
to a future world. A different world. A better world.
Perhaps even the best world for disabled children, young
people and families. Welcome to a world where disability is
embraced as an opportunity for development, awareness,
learning and the global development of humanity - where the
journey between ability and disability is cyclical - a
natural manifestation of the perfect order of things. A
world where the wealth invested in families by disabled
children is celebrated. Where disabled people are proud to
be perfect along with everyone else. In this future world,
disability is accepted, valued and encouraged. As you read
this vision you will notice that it does not always reflect
"what is" now and that, sometimes, it departs from "what is"
now quite distinctly. Keep an open mind at these times and
remember that this vision suggests a design of "what can
be"
It
is 9am at a Conceptual Learning Centre. A group of 14, 15
and 16 year-olds are beginning the first session of a
10-week Development Path called "Constructive Thinking
around Love, Relationships and Parenting". The group
nominates a facilitator and begins brainstorming the areas
of learning they wish to pursue. The
third point they raise to be explored is the benefits of
having a disabled child.
A
few years later, a fifth-year trainee Well-being Facilitator
is majoring in Child Potentiality at the Well-being Learning
and Development Centre. He is one of 100 trainees from
around the country who have just arrived at a core one-week
Development Path retreat run by the Disability Pride
Project. He can't wait to attend the training. A team of
highly skilled disabled facilitators will run the retreat.
He glances at the programme, skimming eagerly the menu of
workshops, seminars and one-to-one coaching
sessions: The
culture of disability Disabled
creativity The
soul purpose of disability Loving
someone disabled. His eye
stops at the workshop that will change his and others'
lives:
A
couple arrive at the fourth session of an antenatal
programme. They have already learned about foetal
development, breathing techniques, constructive
visualisation, stress management and natural pain relief.
This evening, a disabled woman and a disabled child with her
parents present a session on the joys of disability in
families. They also talk about the support available to
ensure families benefit from the learning that disability
offers and give detailed information on how to contact the
Disability Pride Project. The
couple leave the session open to the possibility that their
twins might be disabled, amazed at the development in
support opportunities since they discussed disability at
their Conceptual Learning Centre seven years ago.
Two
months later, twins - a girl and a boy - are born in the
City Well-being Centre. The parents are excited and
expectant during the birth. At the antenatal class they
learned how to cope with the many natural configurations of
birth. The twins both have significant
impairments...
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A
taste of Kids' Vision-
Edward de Bono
from "New Thinking for the New Millennium"Disability
as a family learning experience
Introducing
parents to their newborn disabled infant with love,
respect and dignity.